I’ve written about unleashing the beast a few times before – the timeless elegance and cool girl chic of the leopard print coat. If you don’t have one already – you need one. It’s a coat for everyday. A coat for Winter, Autumn and Spring. Layer it up with a denim jacket or leather biker in the colder months and alone in the warmer.

How to wear it…

  • Wear an all black outfit for a quick trick to look slimmer – it frames your body to create a lean silhouette
  • Pair with a striped top for casual cool
  • Add your blue-blue jeans for a cali-babe look
  • With leather trews for that off duty model rock chick feel
  • And add trainers and chunky boots for day – and go sky high for night

I’ve included my usual dollop of inspo below and an edit of some great ones on the highstreet right now… perfect Christmas presents…

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It’s very rare I am getting myself dressed and I feel like I have a gaping hole in my wardrobe – for one – I keep clothes for ever – I still wear pieces I’ve had since before University. And secondly – with the amount of clothes I buy of course its no surprise. But the other evening getting ready for a (rare) night out and I couldn’t find a pair of boots I wanted to wear. The only heeled ankle boots I have are suede. Nothing with a harder edge. Two pairs of soft suede leather heeled boots which I still love but bought pre-children in the style of the ‘pistol’ boot but from Russell and Bromley. One black and one beige. I just wanted something a little tougher – more modern and with a bit of attitude…

I wear my Acne Jensen patent leather boots – to death! They were such a good investment. Simple enough to wear with anything but the patent leather just makes them a little bit special. And that night I was desperate to just add a heel to my Jensens. I ended up wearing some court shoes which are my go-to easy to wear and extremely comfortable high heels. They’re from LK Bennett and anyone looking for a comfortable high heel I would highly recommend these you can dance all night in them and not feel a thing.

Anyway… so this started me on an Acne Jensen style heeled boot search. I didn’t want to spend too much as unlike flat boots I know I’ll only wear these every now and again. & Other Stories was my first port of call… then Zara, H&M, Mango… then I spotted a few online at Topshop. I ordered two pairs – the Hoxton and the Mambo – and the Hoxton just fitted like a glove. With heels comfort is key for me otherwise I just will not wear them and its money wasted. Painful evening shoes can ruin an evening. And when you go out as little as I do – nothing can put that at risk! 😉 I’ve linked both the boots here for you, the Hoxton is the cheaper one much to my delight when I chose it… and the way it dips at the front is super flattering on the leg too…

So after filling my little wardrobe hole I thought I needed to share the love and introduce you to the boot you need in your sartorial armoury… I’ve popped my edit below and a plethora of styling inspo below that.

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Sunday Evening, that time I run around the house trying to sort and tidy the bomb site that is my house and get the family sorted for the week ahead. It’s always manic, I inevitably get ratty and take it out on who ever is closest at the time, the wine gets poured, I give up and then the circus that is the week commences again. I know I am not alone in the franticness. It literally is Friday *blink* Monday… the weekends are never long enough. But it does mean it’s time for another peep into another successful mothers routine… I’ve called this one ‘how does she do it’?

This Sunday I am very excited to share an interview with the incredible Lena Terlutter. Effortlessly stylish, Lena is a successful influencer, stylist, author, model, and the proud owner of several shops in Cologne. At 34 years old, she has over 336k Instagram followers, has worked with incredible brands like Cartier and Chanel. She is mummy to the beautiful Luca and seriously cute Lola and is pregnant with her third due very soon! If you’re looking for stylish bump inspo you can’t go wrong following Lena! In fact you can’t go wrong following her full stop.

1. Do you plan your outfits in advance?
No, i tried that some times but I always failed. I really need to decide spontaneously, otherwise I don’t feel good.
2. What is the average morning routine for you?
Getting ready in 15 minutes, drinking my first coffee meanwhile, fast make up, dressing and feeding the kids, driving them to their kindergarten and off to the office afterwards…

2. Do you have any quick makeup hacks that hide a sleepless night?
Yes I swear on touche éclat concealer from YSL.
4. Do you manage to style your hair everyday or do you have a tip for making second/third/fourth day hair last?
No, unfortunately that takes much more time – if my hair is not styled I wear a hat or cap, that´s always the best way to hide a bad hair day.
5. Any sneaky ways to look better than you might be feeling?
An outfit that makes you feel good, in my case it´s almost equal whether it´s a casual or elegant one, if it makes me feel good i´m having a good day.

6. Do you have to work a lot in the evenings too?
Sometimes I like working in the evenings when the kids are sleeping and i´m in front of the computer with the baby monitor next to it – it´s a calm atmosphere since you know there´s no one disturbing you 😉
But i prefer working in the morning, I have the most energy then and it´s easier since you can also make all the phone calls or get a direct answer by email.
7. Do you have any tips for keeping the baby/kids entertained whilst you get ready?
Haha, no I wish I had – for the elder one it´s easy because her biggest hobby is painting and she does it like always, so when I have to get ready she´s already on her painting table, so cute. The little one who is one year old is of course not that easy to entertain while doing my make up, that´s when my husband plays with her and there are also days without make up because of that lack of time 😉

8. Do you have any help with the kids in the morning from your husband or anyone else?
Yes fortunately…my husband and I have a company together, so we do not only share our private but also our business life – it´s far more easy to organize when you have the same job.
Thank you so much for sharing your mum-life with us Lena. Another advocate of the hat and touche éclat!
And thank you guys so much for reading…
Ashley
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I love wearing a hat – like really love wearing one. And not to make a style statement although of course it does – but I love wearing one for all those lazy reasons like not having to do my hair, take a brolly out, put on a face of makeup. A hat frames your face, its easy to grab, it makes you look like you have your shiz under control even when don’t. Gives an air of confidence, edge and feminine style. And the new little hat that I have been wearing religiously… the beret.

I’ve bought and returned quite a few. I think I must have an odd shaped head… but the style that fitted like a glove – the £10 ASOS beret. Love it when a bargain pulls through. I bought a second in black I loved it so much. So without further ado – here are my top tips on how to style the beret and wear with confidence.

5 Beret Styling Tips

  1. Play around with where on your head you’ll wear it. It looks better on different people at different angles. I prefer mine covering my forehead, worn lower – some people look incredible with it pushed back on the hairline or even further back into the hair. You’ll know what you prefer.
  2. Wearing your hair down – go messy. Too pristine and it doesn’t work so well – think Kate Moss/Jane Birkin.
  3. Hair up – go for a low bun or ponytail and pull out some tufts to give it a relaxed look.
  4. Grab a pair of statement earrings to give the simple beret some oomph.
  5. Do not go cliche… you don’t have to go french breton and onions round your neck – in fact the opposite looks amazing – rock chick tee and beaten up jeans with a pretty little beret balanced neatly on your pretty little head. Boom – perfect.

 

A red beret is the ultimate show stopper – confidence in bucket loads. And perfect for the grey months.

Seriously chic – the little black beret is a classic that will literally go with everything.

Sugar sweet – go for the ultimate girly hat and pair with masculine pieces like an oversized blazer and vintage jeans.

White looks incredible on brunets and camel works perfectly with blonde hair.

Understated grey is a soft way to introduce the beret and like black it’ll work with any outfit.

 

 

Thank you for reading…

Ax

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Welcome back… I hope you’ve had a perfect end to the weekend. I am absolutely thrilled to be able to bring this weeks Successful Mother insight to you. Falling in love with her style when I was pregnant with Margot and she was just a few weeks ahead of me with her second pregnancy I took all the inspiration I could from her on how to style my bump. Not only is she insanely beautiful, stylish and chic but this woman has ambitions and is gearing up to take on the beauty industry with a big launch next year – and to top it off she is incredibly kind and actually really quite hilarious with an infectious dry sense of humour. You’ll see what I mean when she goes into her morning routine with the kids. Without further ado – introducing the talented entrepreneur that is Anouk Yve.
 
1. Do you plan your outfits in advance?
It really depends, believe me or not but I really make an effort every morning to look nice. I think if you look nice you feel nicer too. This indeed takes some planning in advance, usually either the night before but most of the time half an hour before everybody in the house wakes up. I not only plan my outfit but also the outfits of the kids. In this way when hub leaves the house to go to work, I’m dressed up and after I do the children. My son is 2 years old, my daughter 9 months.
2. What is the average morning routine for you?
Dress myself and the kids (I usually put the television on for my 2 year old son so he can watch while I can do all the work).
Afterwards we go down to the kitchen and I prepare food for the children while Teun plays with his Toys and Elin is watching me from her Trip trapp chair. I always make porridge (oatmeal and almond milk). After they have breaky, I will eat something quick. By that time the first baby made the first poo, so diaper changing can begin. I’m fully done with the morning routine at 9 oclock. About that time Elin is getting tired so I’ll put her to bed, while Teun is playing and I will clean the kitchen, check my mail etc. After an hour Elin wakes up again and I prepare her bottle, change diapers again and start making lunch. Yes everyday the same. Mornings are the most busy.
 
3. Do you have any quick makeup hacks that hide a sleepless night?
Hihi, yes, the obvious Touche Eclat, but also make up fixing spray from Urban Decay (skindinavia). This will leave my skin with a fresh radiant glow, some lipstick on my cheek and voila a healthy look is born.
 
4. Do you manage to style your hair everyday or do you have a tip for making second/third/fourth day hair last?
Haha I have curls so my hair is the best at day three and four. Because Elin pulls my hair all the time I usually have it in a low bun, I think it’s chic and minimalistic. I also – like you Ashley – love a good hairtuck, that’s my quick hair hack if I need to go to the supermarket.
5. Any sneaky ways to look better than you might be feeling?
Always dress nice, It’s my number one rule. It’s so easy to grab a track suit and just really be a mom mom, but I refuse. I want to look nice. Teun and I make a little play out if it. I will do my make up and Teun will watch and sometimes I draw something on his face with a eye pencil. The other day I made him a cat and he ‘Meowed’ at me the whole morning. It was so much fun.
 
6. Do you have to work a lot in the evenings too?
My time is very limited. My kids are so so young, the younger the more work you have. When they are in bed I can work two hours max, but I also have a boyfriend who wants attention so I try to do that too. It’s difficult. My boyfriend hates Instagram and everything that comes with it. He refuses to make photo’s of me so I really have to plan shooting days. I have friends who help me out, and I work with a photographer too. Usually I shoot one time each week. We do 4 looks, I cannot do more. It drains me out. I mean I’m 33yrs old. My goal is to succeed with my brand – I’m launching a special curl cream and spray next year – not to be instafamous for what I wear but for what I have accomplished as an entrepreneur. I always had businesses. That’s what drives me, not the amount of likes on a special pair of jeans I happen to wear.
For this time being it’s ok to earn money with my account, but the end goal is more complex and deep than just looking nice on instagram. I see it as a tool to reach my goals and to keep a close eye on influencer trends etc.
7. Do you have any tips for keeping the baby/kids entertained whilst you get ready?
Haha, eh Youtube? Yes my son does watch the television and yes sometimes more than an hour straight after each other. First I thought I was a bad mom, but it’s just the new era I guess. I know other moms do it too and I know our moms would have done it if they had the technique we have today. I have a few rules: No television during dinner – any dinner that is, I want them to really eat consciously. During the day time television is on only after 4 oclock, and we go out to play everyday for at least two hours. We live in the country side and the nature around our house is just so pretty. The only annoying thing is that it’s fall, Teun loves to jump in puddles. He’s always soaking wet haha. Yes this means again extra work for mommy.
 
8. Do you have any help with the kids in the morning from your husband or anyone else?
No I don’t I do everything myself. My boyfriend is gone two or three nights a week too and he works six times a week. Leaving 6.30am coming home 4pm. He’s almost done being a football player (we used to live in England by the way – he played for Southampton, Millwall, Norwich). It’s hard having two young babies and being alone a lot. I simply cannot go to events, or be on Instagram all day like the fulltime Insta-influencers do. I don’t have the time. My number one priority is my babies. Luckily sometimes I can ask my parents or Jos can ask his parents.
One side note: Every monday Teun goes to daycare, so I can do some extra work. And every friday we have a nanny. Friday is my day, I collect things I really want to do, put it on a list and make them happen on friday. Whether that is a stroll into town, quality time with friends or doing a yoga class. If I didn’t had one day ‘off’ from being a mom I literally will loose it haha!
9. Any style tips to make you feel and look better if you’ve not had time for makeup and hair?
Go outside for a walk, this will give you a fresh radiant look. 😉

If you don’t follow her already I would highly recommend getting on and following… her stories make me laugh, expect dancing and babies, fashion and family, life going by… and everything done with such style.
Hope you’ve enjoyed this week – let me know of any other mums you’re dying to know just ‘how do they do it?’
With love,
Ashley
xx

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